In one fell swoop, Indian tennis player Sania Mirza explained the blatant sexism female celebrities and athletes face on a regular basis.
“Amidst all the celebrityhood, when is Sania going to settle down? Is it going to be in Dubai? Is it going to be in another country? What about motherhood? Building a family? I don’t see that in the book. It seems like you don’t want to retire yet to settle down.”
“You seem disappointed that I’m not choosing motherhood over being number one in the world at this point [in] time. But I’ll answer your question anyway. That’s a question I face all the time as a woman. That’s one of the questions, as women, that we have to face all the time, is first is marriage and then is motherhood. Unfortunately, that is when we are ‘settled.” And no matter how many Wimbledon’s we win, or No 1’s in the world we become, we don’t become settled.”
Admitting his fault is a great step, to be sure, but female celebrities around the world continue to deal with blatant sexism, especially after they reach the arbitrary age that most people believe women should be “settled,” i.e. married and entering into motherhood.
Actress Jennifer Aniston’s recent op-ed in the Huffington Post spoke about her alleged “baby bumps” the media has speculated again and again, and the body-shaming she’s faced over the years at the expense of her sanity and health. She also brings up another interesting point: Now that she is married to Justin Thereoux, why must the media be so fascinated about when she may or may not have a baby? Once again, why are women only considered settled when they are married and have children?
Mirza seems very content with her life at this moment, she’s the number one player in the world in women’s doubles. Aniston is producing and acting in many films and even received a Golden Globe nomination last year for her work in the film “Cake.” Why don’t either of these huge milestones make either women “settled”?
This question won’t go away with just one interview and just one or two celebrities. Unfortunately, it’s just the way of life many celebrities and normal women like us have to live.
So how does one break the cycle of sexism? As journalists, we can rise above this line of questioning, as celebrities can’t continue to carry the burden of shutting down the sexism all on their own. It’s a hard, long road, and one that will surely be a steep uphill climb. But for now, we can applaud those who are willing to speak up and end the nonsense.